Beyond the Boundary: Living in Boundless Love
"When I started this blog, it was intended to be a visual journey, a space to share my photographs. But life, in its wonderfully unpredictable way, has turned this into a playground for growth. Through the pairing of my images with my thoughts, I've found a balance, a way to harmonize the creative and the analytical, the soul and the personality. It’s a process of finding peace by giving my entire being a voice.
This week, the image of doors kept appearing in my mind. I remembered a phrase from a place I used to frequent: 'Every exit is an entrance to someplace new.' This resonated deeply when I recently found myself transitioning from a space that had been a part of my daily life for two and a half years. The reason for this shift was that my presence, in some way, created discomfort for another.
While the request to step away was unexpected, I choose to see it as an opportunity for profound growth. I've always strived to show up authentically, with love and positive intention. I embrace my 'extra' – the way I love big, laugh loud, and connect deeply. It's an integral part of who I am. I consider myself a human connector enthusiast! And I've learned that those who truly see you, appreciate the fullness of your light.
The initial moment brought hurt, yes. But as I've shared in previous posts, within that hurt lies incredible potential for transformation. I now see this exit as a doorway to deeper self-discovery and new, wondrous possibilities.
'Every exit is an entrance to someplace new.' This concept is so beautifully powerful. When I explored the symbolism of doors, I found they represent transition, new beginnings, protection, boundaries, choices, and opportunities. The idea of boundaries stood out, mostly because it was shared that my not showing up was a way to respect boundaries. In my initial hurt reaction, I argued that boundaries are about self-protection, honoring our needs and limits. They are about shifting our own behavior, not requiring the participation of others. It’s about recognizing what doesn’t serve us and acting accordingly. I soon realized, however, that in arguing this I was losing sight of my own boundaries. I could be right or I could be happy.
Sometimes, life pushes us through doors we didn't plan on opening. Sometimes, when people are hurting, they project that pain onto others. I was presented with a choice: to dwell on what was lost, or to explore the new entrances before me. I chose the latter.
My boundary is rooted in boundless love, in all circumstances. Once the initial shock subsided, I embraced the chance to practice forgiveness, compassion, and presence. For months, I've used chakra meditations, affirming, 'I am connected. I honor all living beings. I honor myself. I am boundless love. I surrender my will for divine will. I release my projected fears to see true reality. I am present.' I've coupled this with the prayer of St. Francis. This transition has been a sacred journey, an opportunity to embody these principles.
Looking back, I see this exit as a necessary step in my path. It has led me to incredible blessings. We know that everything is transient, and that attachment leads to suffering. My commitment is to live as a source of authentic, boundless love, embracing each moment with gratitude, peace, and joy. As the Bible reminds us, love is patient, kind, and free of ego. In this love, we find pure freedom and bliss.
Change and growth arise from discomfort. Forgiveness and love open magical portals, guiding us to places we might not have chosen.
Doors are magical. They symbolize transition, new beginnings, protection, and even the passage from life to what's next. When life presents you with a door, I encourage you to walk through it with open arms, wide eyes, and a heart brimming with wonder and gratitude. Magic awaits you on the other side.
LOVE BIG. LAUGH LOUD. HUG HARD. WRITE ON.
